A Journey of External and Internal Preparation for Folks of ANY Age and Stage.
End-of-Life Preparation
A 13-week Immersion Course from Fall Equinox to Winter Solstice 2024
This is a practical, emotional, spiritual, and community building workshop!
Embark on a transformative 13-week IMMERSION course that results in more empowerment, embodiment, alignment, and presence in your life. This live & online series, led by Lee Warren, is a step-by-step guided process to create clear end-of-life intentions as well as an in-depth introduction to the profound realms of Death Literacy, Death Acceptance, Death Positivity, and Conscious Dying Practice.
September 17, 2024 to December 10, 2024.
LIVE and ONLINE Immersion Course Series
Tuesdays from noon to 2:15pm Eastern.
Each week is a 2.25 hour class.
For a total of 29 hours together.
The sessions will be recorded.
I ask that you are able to attend at least 2/3 of the sessions live (8 out of the 13).
To get the most out of the course plan to spend 3-5 hours (in addition to class time) to complete the assignments.
From Fall Equinox to Winter Solstice 2024
Pripo & Rainbow Teplitsky
Dr. Brenda Freeman
Damon Sean Dickinson
Patricia Kyritsi Howell
Linda Landon
Mountaine Jonas
This Experience is Perfect For You If:
- You’re of any age or stage in life who recognizes the importance of death literacy and wants to learn conscious dying practices.
- You seek emotional and spiritual growth through understanding and embracing the end-of-life process.
- You want to be a part of a community where you can engage in deep, meaningful conversations about death with a supportive group.
- You need practical tools for planning and preparing for end-of-life, leading to empowerment and peace of mind.
- You appreciate a blend of structured learning and personal exploration and are committed to attending live sessions and dedicating time outside of classes to deepen your understanding.
- You’re looking for a transformative experience that changes how you perceive life and death, fostering a proactive approach to end-of-life planning.
Dive into a 13-week journey that transforms your understanding of death into a source of empowerment and peace. You’ll learn to view the end of life not as a fear, but as a profound aspect of your life’s journey. We’ll also address the practical aspects of preparing for death, guiding you in making informed decisions and crafting compassionate end-of-life directives.
Evalena Rose
“Thank you for educating me on a topic that has been in my mind and didn’t know how to approach. The information shared in the class was very useful and opens up more avenues for me to explore. It is a doorway towards reflecting on available options and choices related to end of life that is usually avoided or neglected.”
Benita Silver
“This workshop offers a bounty of resources, including the participants who lend support, education and direction. It’s truly a beautiful unfolding of community in process! I feel so much more well-equipped to address the issues of approaching my end-of-life.”
Dr. David Nygaard
Patrick Davis
Diane Baker
Cat Matlock
Curriculum
This series is an overview of many aspects of end of life preparation including advanced life directives, after death options, financial choices, building death community, and preparing for death internally. How much paperwork you “finish” is entirely up to how much time you dedicate to the process.
The Five Wishes document is an internationally renowned advanced directive often described as a “living will with a heart and soul.” The wishes are: 1. Who do I want to make decisions for me when I can’t? 2. What kind of medical treatment do I want or not want? 3. How comfortable do I want to be? 4. How do I want people to treat me? 5. What do I want my loved ones to know?
Week 1 | 9/17/24 | Introduction, Intentions, Overview, Invitation |
Week 2 | 9/24/24 | Wish 1 (from the 5 Wishes), Patient Advocacy, Death Care Teams, Addendum |
Week 3 | 10/1/24 | Songs, Chants, Journal Prompts, Poems, and Other Mystical Traditions for Exploring “Beyond the Veil” |
Week 4 | 10/8/24 | Wish 2 (from the 5 Wishes), Medical Interventions, Pain Management, Go-Wish Cards, Addendum |
Week 5 | 10/15/24 | Integration, What Makes for a Good Death Contemplation, Death Traditions from Our Past |
Week 6 | 10/22/24 | Wishes 3, 4, 5 (from the 5 Wishes), Finalizing 5 Wishes, Dementia Directives, MOST, DNR, Medical POA |
Week 7 | 10/29/24 | Psychedelics & The Practice of Dying |
Week 8 | 11/5/24 | Honoring the Dead: After Death Options including Home Funeral & Home Burial |
Week 9 | 11/12/24 | After Death Options Continued including After Death Paperwork |
Week 10 | 11/19/24 | Financial Considerations & Strategies for Purging “Stuff” |
Week 11 | 11/26/24 | Building Death Literate Community, Death Humor, Death Resources |
Week 12 | 12/3/24 | Saying Yes to Death, Making Peace with Death, Embodied Living & Dying |
Week 13 | 12/10/24 | Discretionary Time (in case something big comes up or we need to add a week because we ran over or something we still need to unpack) |
Solstice | 12/17/24 | Optional. Solstice Celebration. Closure. Course Graduation Ceremony. |
Ellie Richard
“Lee is very generous in sharing her own stories of being with those who were dying, and also making her own end of life documents available. Lee really helped me to understand what I need to get into dying order for myself and, to understand what I can do to normalize talking about death.”
Sera Deva
Victoria Rose
Heather Hale
Grace S. Hearth
Susan Gee Rumsey
“Death is not waiting for us at the end of a long road. Death is always with us, in the marrow of every passing moment. She helps us to discover what matters most.”
― Frank Ostaseski, The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully
What’s Included?
- More than 29 hours of live class time through 13 live 2.25 -hour sessions via Zoom
- Recordings, Slides, and Chat Sessions of all classes
- End of Life Checklist to help you keep track of your tasks.
- Comprehensive List of Resources to help you gather information, compare notes, and make decisions.
- Buddy system pairing with a fellow classmate for accountability
- Access to printable templates and formatted paperwork
- Examples of completed paperwork from which to base your design
- Discussion, ideas, inspiration, and encouragement
- Support, celebration, and community
- Prompts for contemplation and meditation
- Concrete homework steps each week
- Group time for integration and motivation
David Case
“From the opening moments of the workshop, Lee’s wisdom is apparent. Even though zoom, she connects and inspires as through she is in your room. It’s clear that she is a master of all the materials she presented.”
MayaJoëlle Aubry
Kitty Schaller
Mariah Epes
Robyn Lynn
Jess Sparks
Why End of Life Preparation?
These practices enable us to be more prepared for our eventual passing, encouraging us to fully embrace life in the present.
We know not the day nor the hour, says the Bible, with an admonition to prepare ahead. Most traditional cultures—from ritual initiations to death contemplations to psychedelic experience—help us confront and understand death long before it arrives.
This 13-week course is a shared journey in preparing for the end of life. Whether you’re looking to assist a loved one, prepare for someone else’s departure, or get your own affairs in order, all reasons are valid and welcomed. It’s a universal truth that in helping others come to terms with their mortality, we must also reconcile with our own.
Intentional preparation for death not only honors life but also enhances the likelihood of experiencing a good death.
Throughout this course, you’ll be invited to contemplate deeply the important questions about the end of life. As we explore these questions together, you’ll become more comfortable discussing, considering, and making decisions about all aspects of your ideal end-of-life journey.
Expect to gain expert information, witness real-life examples, engage in both one-on-one and group discussions, have ample opportunities for deep contemplation, and access a wealth of resources.
This group setting offers a depth of sharing and support not achievable in individual settings, fostering a community that is literate and positive about death.
Join us in this transformative experience where you’ll not only prepare for the end of life but also participate in building a community that embraces death as an integral part of life’s journey.
“There is no task as urgent for us as to learn daily how to die.”
― Rainer Maria Rilke
Ellen Hamlin
Alice Elliott
Peggy Crowe
Robyn Lynn
Sera Deva
Annie Bachmann
What You’ll Gain
- Comfort with End-of-Life Discussions.
- Preparation for Death, whenever it comes.
- Mystical Experiences.
- End-of-Life Documents!
- A Greater Aliveness, Gratitude, & Presence.
- A Friendship or Intimacy with Death.
- Ability to Share & Support Others.
- A New Outlook of Life & Death.
- Support & Shared Reality.
- Conscious Dying Community.
- Deepened Understanding of Death & Dying Issues.
- Practice with Conversations.
- Spiritual Reflections.
- Increased Capacity for Death Related Experiences.
- Inspiration & Experimentation.
- Resources Galore.
From Previous Participants…
“An incredibly helpful workshop. Lee helped me prepare for my own death as well as prepare to serve the dying and their families in my immediate family and others in my death doula work.”
“I highly recommend this workshop. The workshop will provide an understanding of documents and options, but its deep value is in providing an experience of community connection around the often challenging subject of dying and death.”
“Lee is an experienced and truly competent guide in the vast landscapes of end of life plans. Her thoughtful pacing helps us navigate the territory of decisions to make, who to involve, emotions and choices. as we learn the paperwork. Being supported in preparing for this rite of passage by creating our death care team settles a lot in me. Everyone involved will benefit.”
“Lee’s teaching style has a lovely blend of organizational fortitude and down-to-earth compassion. She’ll keep everyone on task while being warm and genuinely open to input. I particularly appreciated the treasure trove of well-researched resources/experiences that she shared with us, the space she made for us to connect with each other, and her patience while we all navigated new technology.”
“This topic has been avoided for years. Lee made it palatable: Engaging! I’m motivated to continue! I needed this!”
“Lee’s information surrounding unpacking the paperwork utilized in the death and dying process course is clear and concise. She provides a warm and safe container to approach topics that while at first may seem uncomfortable, becomes one I recognize as being important to navigating through all the cycles of life.”
“Lee’s experience around death and dying lends to thorough and clear direction for exploring and documenting one’s final wishes. Participation in this workshop is invaluable for peace of mind around your death and for those left to carry out your intentions.”
“Lee’s teaching style has a lovely blend of organizational fortitude and down-to-earth compassion. She’ll keep everyone on task while being warm and genuinely open to input. I particularly appreciated the treasure trove of well-researched resources/experiences that she shared with us, the space she made for us to connect with each other, and her patience while we all navigated new technology.”
“The only choice we have as we mature is how we inhabit our vulnerability, how we become larger and more courageous and more compassionate through our intimacy with disappearance.”
― David Whyte
What Is Asked of You:
A Gentle Approach to Learning
- Attend the live sessions as much as possible. We understand life’s demands, but engaging in real-time discussions enriches your experience and deepens your understanding. Aim to attend at least 8 of the 13 sessions live.
- For a transformative experience, plan to allocate 3-5 hours per week outside of class time for reflection and tasks. This includes talking to loved ones, contemplating your wishes, reading and researching, engaging in mystical exercises, and integrating the learning.
- Expect to be opened – in heart and mind, in spirit and body. Exploring death, a topic often shrouded in taboo, is a deeply expansive and healing experience. Your life will be forever changed…in a good way. You’ll transform personal and societal beliefs to something more expansive and more delightful.
- Engage at your level of comfort. However you show up is a contribution. Our community thrives and welcomes input from everyone. We build a beautiful container based on mutual respect and the collective wisdom of attendees. Your insights and experiences are valuable, enhancing the learning journey for all.
- Participate as deeply with the course materials and exercises as you desire. Some folks take the course multiple times. Enter where you are and be gentle with yourself regarding your pace, timing, style, and flow. It’s best to trust exactly where you are in your process.
Sally Miller
“I appreciated this workshop on a very practical level as an orientation to end-of-life logistics and decision-making. With more time and reflection, I see it as an initiation into living and dying as parts of one journey, one of fulfilling my human purpose. It is well designed and led to allow participants to take it in at a variety of levels.”
Mary Lane
“Lee did an excellent job in her organization of material, and giving enough to prepare us to get our paperwork done without being overwhelming. Any more, would have been too much. I appreciated the practical approach, and would love to see a second phase for preparing mentally, emotionally and spiritually, as well as the practical. I have found that much of that comes up when filling out the documents she has presented.”
Patrick Davis
“If you are a fellow caregiver, or someone who guides and works with others, and you’re wanting support for getting your own house in order, I highly recommend you taking her course or working with Lee.”
Price Details:
Cost:
The fee for this event is $1500. SALE PRICE Starting August 1, 2024 of $697.
Special pricing (half price) for returning attendees of this course. Please see your email for the discount code.
I will gladly take 100% payment in Bitcoin. Contact me for transaction next steps.
Participation:
Workshop fees are PER PERSON. Please fill out one registration per person. If you’re coming with a spouse or a family member and wish to receive a discounted rate, please be in touch. I very much value families doing this course together.
This workshop’s capacity is 30. It will likely sell out. The earlier you register the better. There are no refunds for this workshop.
Future Options:
2024 is the last time this course will be offered virtual and LIVE. I’ll be launching a pre-recorded version of this in 2025. The format will be more self-guided (with live Q&A).
Previous Participants Say:
“I found this course very inspirational and practical too. In preparing to be present for my transition to a different form I plan on letting go of things and working on the needed paperwork. It stands out that this process will be smoother for both me and my family. Also, I am savoring moments of living, being more receptive and present to both myself and the universe.”
“Lee is loving and very knowledgeable about the topic. The addition of her personal pictures and experiences added a great deal. Clearly she has a passion for this and it is contagious for a topic that many shy away from.”
“We all have to face our mortality and make plans for our deaths and burials, yet we all avoid it as much as possible. This was a very helpful workshop. Lee’s intention is to lay out all the practical steps and options involved, but also the more spiritual aspects of consciously choosing how one wants the dying process to go and the after death choices as well. I can’t think of a more important process to consider, and Lee provides clear and thoughtful guidance.”
“Thank you for educating me on a topic that has been in my mind and didn’t know how to approach. The information shared in the class was very useful and opens up more avenues for me to explore. It is a doorway towards reflecting on available options and choices related to end of life that is usually avoided or neglected.”
“These topics can be very difficult to face on one’s own, but in the group setting of the workshop, with Lee’s inspiring, knowledgeable, and caring guidance, they became something to become “friends” with, not to fear. Thank you!”
“This class answered alot of questions I had and didn’t know I had as well. Thank you for your time and resources Lee!”
“I have been discussing and working on End of Life issues with family & friends for many years, and after preparing all other legal documents; I now realize how vital this process of completing the Five Wishes and exploring other resources that this Workshop brought to my attention.”
“I have been discussing and working on End of Life issues with family & friends for many years, and after preparing all other legal documents; I now realize how vital this process of completing the Five Wishes and exploring other resources that this Workshop brought to my attention.”
“So grateful that this course…. got me going in the direction of death literacy. Resources presented are invaluable to open up discussions with family and friends.”
Instructor
I help people fall in love with existence through preparing for death.
I have helped hundreds of folks, of all ages and stages, use death preparation as a practice for more ecstatic aliveness.
As a Tantra and death educator, I know that life and death are interwoven lovers, two halves of the same whole.
As a mystic, I am committed to seeing death as a portal or journey for our spiritual selves.
As an embodiment practitioner, I am equally as committed to honor and support the sometimes messy and often heartbreaking aspects of the death & dying process.
My offer to you is more intimacy with death. That looks like ease, acceptance, and empowerment with the the end-of-life process (yours and others’).
Lee Warren, Death Educator, End-of-Life Preparation Coach, Caregiver Support Ally, Death & Dying Doula.
How I Got Here:
I have been fortunate to learn from the dying within the context of a village. Over two years, from 2016 to 2018, there were six deaths at Earthaven Ecovillage, the place I called home for more than two decades.
These deaths, and the generous people who experienced them, offered incredible opportunities for service to the great mystery. My experiences ranged from preparing end-of-life paperwork, working with hospice, sitting with the dying, collaborating with families on all aspects of the death process, to tending our beloveds for after-death services, creating home wakes, home funerals, and home burials.
The end-of-life ceremonies and rituals we practiced wove together the fabric of our community, infusing meaning into every aspect of the death process.
What I’ve Learned:
- Death can be a gift for all involved.
- We have everything we need internally for a good death.
- Conscious and positive death experiences are possible.
- Preparing in advance, both internally and externally, makes a good death more possible.
- A village context is by far the best way to depart. So let’s build the village. Everywhere.
- Tending to the dying creates a bond with the whole in a way that nothing else does.
Susan Gee Rumsey
“As a result of this workshop I am much more relaxed and comfortable with the reality of my own death, and I am now enjoying working through the same end-of-life planning and preparations that I had avoided for so long. This workshop was literally life-changing for me, and I am deeply grateful to have taken part in it.”
Evalena Rose
“We all have to face our mortality and make plans for our deaths and burials, yet we all avoid it as much as possible. This was a very helpful workshop. Lee’s intention is to lay out all the practical steps and options involved, but also the more spiritual aspects of consciously choosing how one wants the dying process to go and the afterdeath choices as well. I can’t think of a more important process to consider, and Lee provides clear and thoughtful guidance.”
Kitty Schaller
“Lee’s many years of experience and practice with end of life planning imbued the event with thoughtfulness and gentleness. I found her to be organized, informative, motivating — and most of all, human.”
Dr. David Nygaard
“I have found Lee to be a wealth of knowledge and resources in regard to the potentially emotionally laden topic of death and dying.”
MayaJoëlle Aubry
“Well organized, well delivered, well worth End of Life workshop, taking the taboo out of the subject. Each participant was given plenty of opportunities to share through speaking and typing.”
Ellie Richard
“I really don’t think that the End of Life Workshop with Lee could have been any better. The content is comprehensive, the group size was perfect, and Lee is an excellent sensitive facilitator who is extraordinarily attuned to participants.”
Benita Silver
“Lee presents a comprehensive overview about the essentials of end-of-life paperwork and considerations. She holds compassionate space for participants to deeply dive into discerning wishes and priorities and their ultimate impact on those who remain.”
Damon Sean Dickinson
“Lee’s wisdom and leadership in this arena is sacred and holy. Every human being on the planet needs to consider these vital issues. We make so many plans for a birth but try to postpone and ignore our inevitable and unpredictable death. This course gives me hope that my transition can be the most beautiful and graceful possible for everyone involved . So grateful!”
Heather Hale
“I really appreciated Lee nurturing of what I’ll call “accountability buddies” so that these often challenging to-do items have support both during the course of the workshop and when it completed. I have told ALL the people I care about about this course. I hope at least some of them will carve out the time for this immensely worthwhile workshop! Thank you, Lee!”
Frequently Asked Questions
This course is designed for anyone interested in gaining a deeper understanding of death and dying, regardless of age or life stage. Whether you are preparing for your own end of life, helping a loved one, or simply wish to gain a more profound appreciation for life, this course offers valuable insights and practical tools.
While attending the live sessions is highly recommended to gain the full benefit of community interaction, all sessions will be recorded. We ask that participants commit to attending at least 8 of the 13 sessions. You will have access to these recordings to catch up on any missed content.
No prior knowledge or experience is required to join this course. Participants only need to bring an open mind and a willingness to engage in discussions about death and dying. Some participants take the course for the first time with an intention to absorb the information (but not complete paperwork). They then take it again later to do the tasks. However you show up is a contribution to the whole.
You will need a stable internet connection to attend live sessions and access course materials online. Sessions will be conducted via Zoom, so ensuring that your computer or device supports this software will be necessary.
In addition to the live sessions, we recommend dedicating 3-5 hours per week to complete readings, exercises, and reflections designed to deepen your understanding, and experience of the course material. If you plan to complete your paperwork we suggest you also schedule time to talk to family and friends about your wishes and their roles in your end of life plans.
There aren’t many end of life preparation programs in existence. This course uniquely combines practical end-of-life planning with spiritual and emotional exploration within a community setting. It emphasizes real-life applications, personal and group reflection, and community support.
By the end of the course, you should have a comprehensive end-of-life plan, a deeper understanding of your personal views on death, and enhanced comfort with discussing and handling end-of-life matters. Additionally, you will have built a supportive network of individuals who share a death-positive perspective.
Lee Warren is the primary instructor. She sometimes brings in guest teachers on certain subjects and this is to be determined in a given series.
Yes. You can work with Lee Warren on a one-on-one basis. Although the group does provide a lot of context, shared reality, support, and additional knowledge and insight. It’s a powerful community experience. But that’s entirely up to you.